A Thought on Society
Civilization is associated with evolutionary journey of human being. Simplification is facilitation of their well-being. Transformation is inevitable revolution. If you don't change, you will not grow and if you don't grow you'll settle at a lower step. Look at bigger picture of life. If you choose to stick with your norms, you'll find yourself nowhere. A group of people originated from the similar region forms the community and the sum of community is called society. Smooth flow of process is achieved by standard principles, but society has no right to snatch away the individuality. To be a part of it or not is always a matter of choice. It is not at all disrespectful as you have chosen to explore more in this journey. In order to learn and acquire knowledge one can go up-to any depth. When you form a group, you see differences in every individual. It's our perception at looking at things that make us different from others. If there is a purpose and pure intention behind it then no society, no culture, no community, no religion is bigger than a human. Generally, we take birth, follow set of norms and patterns, we live for society keeping it our priority and then we die. On deathbed will surely we think what all I did in my life, I lived it in others terms, sacrificed my happiness, restricted my mindset and was in a deep well throughout. I didn't follow my heart, I haven't satisfied my soul yet, I want to live little more just for myself.
There is no alternative for adjustment and by compromising you are cheating with yourself. In order to make others happy, you've to be happy first. Because somewhere, someone is praying for you, looking up-to you. In the journey, at any point, you find things that you think are made for you, then grab it. Don't think much and hold it tightly as long as you can. If at all, it's actually made for you then you will get it or else appreciate your efforts and learn to recognize right opportunity for you. It's never a mistake, it's always a learning. People will come for you to grow and things will happen for you to know. Accept the way it comes and bring it up the place you want. Coming back to society, we are all social animals. In this concrete forest and invisible walls of perception, later or sooner you will realize that people are respectful and agreeable to you when you are excelling high. As long as the meaning and objective are behind. The moment you fall, perhaps they will help you in relative terms, but definitely you will feel the sense of helpless within you.
We are all separate entities, as you choose to go beyond, they will kill you mentally, harass you physically and paralyze you financially. Bitter truth and harsh facts! If you want to create choices for yourself then you only have to find the way, or else you are liable to live within preset choices. Path is drawn and rules are written. You have to decide great things or ordinary path. Great things never lie in comfort zone and attachments are painful on this path. Life has more to it than you think. Don't worry about what others think, in realistic terms and on practical grounds if you think you are right then follow your heart using your mind. Nothing belongs to anyone.
Have faith in supreme power and believe in yourself.